Monday, February 23, 2009

I Want to be the Exception :)

A couple of years ago, there was all this craze about a book called 'He's Just Not That Into You'. It's a 'self-help' book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo, who were both working in one of my favorite sitcoms, Sex and the City. The book lists down the 'signs' if a man is not 'into' a woman in a no-nonsense, straightforward way, like 'He's Just Not That Into You, If He's Not Asking You Out, Because If He Likes You, Trust Me, He Will Ask You Out'. I borrowed a copy of the book and read through it, but I didn't like it. I didn't find it enjoyable, or empowering...I found myself questioning it and insisting it didn't apply to Filipino culture. So, I just read it and promptly forgot about it.

Fast forward 5 years later, and I am reminded of the book because it has now been made into a movie, starring Jennifer Anniston, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Connelly, Drew Barrymore and Scarlett Johansson among others.

So, along with some of my office pals, we went to watch the screening in a full-packed (read: full-packed) G4 cinema. Let me tell you, it was really fun to watch. And I absolutely loved it, and I couldn't help agreeing with the points it mentioned. Sooo....I found a copy of the book and re-read it, just to see if I would change my mind about it. Granted, I still did not find it 'enjoyable' to read, but now I agree with most, if not all of the points mentioned. So yes, I guess now I do feel empowered by it. But anyway, back to the movie, it's really a must see for all the ladies out there. I'm sure you'll relate to at least one of the story arcs, and it was all beautifully done, I wouldn't mind seeing it again (like tomorrow), hehehe. The pic below was taken after the movie, thanks to Dianne for making the collage.

So, why did I like the movie so much? Well, it was honest, it was believable, relate-able(?), and it really showed how vulnerable women feel at times. But what I like most about it, which I didn't find in the book, was that it gives us hope. No matter how empowered we have become, it gives us hope, that we too can still be the exception to the rule. Yes, there are signs that show how men are just not into us, but there are exceptions... and I know that we have to think of ourselves as the rule and not the exception, but I want to be an exception, I dunno, it seems sweeter that way. If all I said in this paragraph is gibberish to you, it means you haven't watched the movie yet, trust me it'll make sense if you do.

Bottom line is, it really depends on how you interpret the movie or the book and whether you agree or not, it's up to you. Me, I just wanted to say my piece. :)

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Ewan

One of my friends posted this on Facebook and I found it amusing... I'll be altering the rules a bit, I won't be tagging anyone, feel free if you want to repost. But I followed everything else. :)

Rules: Put your player on shuffle and hit the 'Next' button to get your answer to every question. You must indicate the title and artist, no matter how far-fetched it sounds. Tag people who might be interested in doing this same thing. No cheating.


WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
It's My Life - No Doubt

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
Can I Get A - Jay Z (Hahahahahah!)

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
Illegal - Shakira feat. Carlos Santana

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
Decode - Paramore

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
The Call - Regina Spektor

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Hella Good - No Doubt

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
All You Need is Love - Diana Fuchs Band/Jim Sturgess Across the Universe OST

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Amnesia - Britney Spears (waaaah, ayaw ko maging ganito!)

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Walk This Way - Run DMC feat. Steve Tyler Sex and the City OST

WHAT SONG WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
The Sweet Escape - Gwen Stefani feat. Akon (Woohoo!)

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
Viva Forever (Spice Girls) Hahahahah!

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST
Rollin' - Limp Bizkit

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Helena - My Chemical Romance

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
So What - Pink

WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN?
Breaking the Habit - Linkin Park

HOW WILL YOU DIE?
Jaded - Aerosmith (Ok, so I will die jaded, hahaha)

WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET?
Bodybumpin - Public Announcement ;))

WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
How You Remind Me - Nickelback

WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?
Lonely No More - Rob Thomas

WHAT SCARES YOU THE MOST?
Push - Enrique Iglesias Step Up 2 OST

IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
Sorry, Blame It On Me - Akon

WHAT HURTS RIGHT NOW?
First Time - Lifehouse (Like being in love to feel for the first time...naks!)

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
Ewan - Imago